•Omotola and husband … marital vows strong It was obvious from the
manner Mr. Ekeinde, pilot, sounded, that he was pained and frustrated by all the unfounded rumours about his wife's glorious outing at the
Grammys "My brother, I am very proud of my wife's accomplishments and I join other well wishers and millions
of her fans to toast her success. I'm
a little surprised that instead of Nigerians celebrating her
appearance at the Grammys and her being the first Nollywood star to
walk the red carpet, they are busy spreading tales and rumours that do not exist"', he said.
"Truth be told, I was not angry with my wife when I saw the picture.
Why should I be? I know who I married, how self-respecting she is and also the nature of her industry. She is an actress for God's sake, and
it is not out of place for actresses to appear in scenes that may look a little out of place for a married person.
''The key thing is that my wife respects her marital status, and in
our 15-year-marriage, she has been the best woman any man could aspire to have. In spite of her stardom, at home, she is my wife. She cooks
for me, takes care of the home and, above all, is a great mother to our lovely children.
"I sincerely would implore her fans not to buy into rumours and
speculations about her marital life, because I, the husband, the one
that is lucky to have her as my wife, am so proud of her and I
continue to thank God for bringing her into my life. I could never
have asked for a better wife than her." Now, let me address the point she made that she did not grant an interview to Sunday Vanguard. About six weeks ago, I became a columnist in this newspaper.
And since one of the planks of this column rests on popular culture, I have been publishing AUTHENTIC AND CREDIBLE interviews that I have had with leading personalities over the years. There is no ethical kerfuffle involved with this practice. A writer or journalist who did
an interview with a given subject can use same interview in any other credible media platform of his choosing, as long as the said INTERVIEW
WAS PROPERLY CONDUCTED AND THE STORY IS REPORTED ACCURATELY.
That was what I did, with the Omotola story. She granted me an interview, and I am now a columnist with Sunday Vanguard, a very
credible and easily one of the leading mainstream newspapers in Nigeria, and I decided to use the story, with my byline boldly
displayed, which should suffice. Her story is not the first I had done along this line, which, I may add, is a universally adopted practice by journalists all over the world. Journalists are free to syndicate their stories in whatever medium or platform they deem fit.
For three weeks, I ran an interview I did with Her Excellency, Mrs. Bianca Ojukwu, the beautiful and erudite Nigerian Ambassador to the
Kingdom of Spain last year in her home, in Enugu. When I did the
interview, I was not yet a columnist with Sunday Vanguard, but I exercised my editorial judgment and used it to flag off this column.
Call from Bianca When the interview ran in Sunday Vanguard, Her Excellency, Mrs. Bianca
Ojukwu, had called me, while I was on a quick trip to South Beach, Miami, Florida, about three weeks ago, to commend me on the interview and even told me she couldn't get a copy of Sunday Vanguard in the
entire eastern states because the paper sold out. She called me from New York where she had gone for a socio-cultural event and I told her
that I was now doing a column in Sunday Vanguard and she wished me
well.
Mrs. Ojukwu did not deny the interview on the account that the said
interview was not meant to have been published in this paper; she knew
that the interview had the full complement of my integrity and
professional bonafides, and was happy for me. In the weeks to come, I will use other exclusive interviews I did with other popular figures
in our politics and pop culture worlds on these pages.
Omotola my friend
Omotola is my friend and even at this very strange moment of our friendship, I will still count her as a good friend. She has been a great ambassador of our arts and a role model for millions of women
and I will not excoriate or eviscerate her, even though I am so
massively tempted to get REAL ANGRY and to use the American street slang "wild-out" but I will hold my fire for NOW.
I count myself as one of the standard bearers of this genre of journalism and thus, acutely aware of ethical issues and concerns. I was trained at City University of New York, Queens College Department of Journalism by the same faculty members who taught students at the Columbia Graduate School of Journalism and my
Monday, December 22, 2014
My wife is no flirt Ekeinde, Omotola’s husband.
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